Believe it
or not, you don’t have to be model-thin and wear the hottest designer fashions
to attract a good man. Actually, the kind of man that is
interested in those things is probably kind of shallow. A lot of guys can tell
from a first date whether a lady
is one that he would want to take home
to mama. Here are the real things that guys look for in a keeper.
1. Smarts. The airhead is out and the brainiac is in. A
dude worth having wants a
lady on his arm that can hold a conversation and hold her own in the world. He
wants a true partner.
2.
Confidence. Believe it
– no guy wants a clingy girl. A real man wants a woman who knows how to carry
herself with confidence and dignity.
3. Cool. Laid back. Be a lady that can relax. Let’s
be real – no man likes a nag, so please be cool and let the little things go. Don’t go too far and be one of the boys, but make him feel as if he
can relax around you.
4. Don’t be a material girl. It’s not cool all.
A good guy does want to buy things for you and treat you well, but he does not
want a lady that demands the latest
in fashion, cars, etc.
5.Be spontaneous. Surprise him now and then. Think of
something out of the ordinary to do that you wouldn’t do on your own but you
know he would like. Go to a game with him.
In fact, you buy the tickets!
6. True. Be
honest. No silly
games. No beating around the bush.
He has to be able to trust
you or it will be over before it started.
8. Sexy. Of course you have to be that. And that does
not mean dressing like a ho or giving it up on the first date. Be a woman. Be confident and love being
feminine. Do the things that make him look for you in a crowd. Know how to
touch him and look at him in a way that makes him smile. Men love sex… it’s that simple. But sexiness is a
whole other subject.
9. Be independent. You don’t have to be with him all the time. You can still have fun with your girls or even be happy
with a night on your own to catch up on a book or shopping.
10. Be there
for him. Be supportive. Guys want friends in their women. There
are things they don’t want to talk about with their male friends, and you should
be willing to listen instead.
Don’t mama him too much; just be that shoulder now and then when he needs it.
Bottom line: be real, be happy and be ready!
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i wish every lady knew this
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